Hey there you go9al setter or not, what's up!! So, it is a new year and you know new me type shit.. lol I don't think it's a bad thing to want to use the new year, the ole 2021 to start fresh and get a new mind set with some new goals. However, we do need to remember that it doesn't have to be a new year to start fresh or do something new. I do like the idea of a new slate per say.. So, let's dive in on 3rd day fo the new year together! I dove into this a few weeks back.. had a vision for what 2021 would and should look like for me.
E X E R C I S E - let's just get it out the way, it is cliche' I know you it, you know it! But I D C, it is what it is... I really want to get back into the swing of this. Once, I start I know I will be hooked (because that is usually how it is for me) A few things I know that will make this more do able ishhh... If I can binge watch Bridgerton on a Sunday I damn sure can fit an exercise in there somewhere too. I mean come on Sloan! lol Sooo, it is def. about prioritization for me.
S A V E -we all want to be big BALLERS... lol But my target runs def. need to slow down and my amazon prime + eating out.. So those are already things I know I need to focus on in order to get it under control a little better. It's not that I don't use my money wisely but there is always room for improvement you know? Sutton being almost 2 & half.. if you don't think college funds haven't crossed my mind.. y'all wild cause they have! The more we (I) can save now the better for the future right?!?!! So, I have already dove into my finances the last few weeks regarding what and where I spend and where to SAVE!
T R A V E L - this sounds very odd, I know.. but covid is here and people aren't stopping living.. I mean you can't. I feel like it is a hard, easy choice to make when it comes to what to do via making plans and going places. So, I want to do more of that. For myself but also with Sutton! He is really at fun age right now... I don't really have any place special I want to go in particular. I just want to goooo, you now what I mean booo? lol
S E L F C A R E - this one I would say also ties in within self love and self esteem. This one has always been a struggle for me, for years. Just because things appear one way or not.. it is what it is! I want to take self care as more like time to my self too... (hoping that means, a walk or a stroll with Sutton) A mix of two of my resolutions. I think self care can go many ways.. it can also be self care as in setting boundaries for different aspects in your life.
Clearly, there are many other aspects and things I want to focus on and be better at. A better mom, daughter, sister and more! Less judgement and less grace. Oh, man time management... did I mention Netflix? haha Seriously, whatever and however you want to take 2021.. just do it! 2020 was a year many of us will not forget. how could we ? We lived or living through a pandemic.. crazy times you guys!! If 2020, did show us anything.. it is that we can accomplish a lot of things when times are tough.
So, don't be discouraged if someone says you're 2021 as an excuse or a reason to start new or start fresh.. just do you!! As I always preach.. we all take what we have and do with it what we can! Maybe you're clean slate is in March, so be it or maybe you started in November. Regardless, I am here to cheer you on boo! :)